THINGS I LEARNED IN 13 DAYS

THINGS I LEARNED IN 13 DAYS:

These 13 days had been very challenging for me because initially, my behavior began to change towards my loved ones and gradually, I began to get sick due to some unhealthy habits. Situation went on getting worse until I realized where I was wrong in all aspects. Finally, when I identified the root cause of my problems, I started to correct them step by step, though everything seems to come into control, yet there is a lot of hard work that I must put to actually do what I really want to do. The truth is nobody but me is stopping from achieving what I really want to achieve. But this is the time when I accept all my mistakes that I have committed so far and apologize from everyone who were related to such situations and here, I forgive myself for all the mistakes for which I keep on kicking myself. I forgive myself for not taking a stand for myself when I really needed to. I forgive myself for hurting my loved ones. This is important because if I don't dare to forgive myself, how can I expect others to forgive me. 

Forgiving myself has also become vital for the fact that this is the time to take a new turning point in my life. How can I grow in life if I keep on living on my past mistakes?

Hence, here, I accept and forgive all my mistakes and request everyone related to my mistakes to forgive me and accept my apologize. I promise to turn into a better version of myself.

The experiences of these 13 days have made me realized what I never want to happen, therefore, all my efforts must be directed towards the experiences that I really want to happen:

July 15, 2018:

1. That awkward moment when your own pain multiplies the sorrows of your loved ones because of your behavior.
2. Sometimes, it becomes important to listen more than to say anything in return.
3. Life teaches us more when we commit mistakes because at such times, it hits us from all angles.
4. A sense of proud is experienced when you bring a smile on someone's face. 

July 16, 2018:

1. New journey is always amazing especially when you take the command of it.
2. Meeting new people is not a coincident when you open yourself to learning new things from everyone.
3. Sometimes, you have to stop waiting for your manager to accompany you everywhere, rather take a lead by yourself and get things done.

July 17, 2018:

1. That hilarious moment when you get along with a person in a very good manner , whom people were considering to be an angry person.
2. That wonderful moment when your school mate happens to meet you at a very unexpected place.
3. It is always you who must take an initiative to grab that opportunity that comes your way.
4. Sometimes, we have to travel a lot all of a sudden, however, we must be prepared to handle such situations so that we don't get any trouble in future.

July 18, 2018:

1. Sometimes, we have to do some tasks just with an intention to learn, irrespective of any monetary benefits.

July 19, 2018:

1. That amazing moment when you get an opportunity to donate important utilities to needy children.

July 20, 2018:

1. That one moment when you have to face consequences for someone else's faults. (P.S. Goraya Visit)
2. That awkward moment when you speak rudely with your loved ones.
3. That one moment when your stubbornness takes you to the path of getting sick.

July 21, 2018:

1. Sometimes, we have to suffer for someone else's irresponsibility.
2. That one moment when your tasks are limited and you don't know how to pass your time.
3. Sometimes, patience is very important to maintain good relations.

July 22, 2018:

1. That awkward moment when your whole day is spent at home laying on bed.
2. The weekend is not really a weekend unless you go out and have fun.
3. Out of all odds, doing something you love actually gives a very good feeling.

July 23, 2018:

1. No matter how much ill you get, sometimes, there is no option to run from your responsibilities.
2. That amazing moment when you get a little support from your manager.
3. It feels good to realize that your loved ones care for you even more than you.
4. That peaceful moment when you finish all your tasks and finally ready to sleep.

July 24, 2018:

1. It feels good to receive cooperation from your manager especially when you need it the most.
2. Th best feeling comes when you fulfill your commitment exactly in a way in which you promised.

July 25, 2018:

1. It feels good when you don't give up on your situation and keep doing your work, however, you must take care of your health as well.
2. That amazing moment when a stranger comes running to you, the moment he see you vomiting on the roadside. (P.S. Nawan Shahar)

July 26, 2018:

1. Sometimes, it is hard to fight against disease when no medicine seems to be working to cure it.
2. That awkward moment when we fight with our loved ones for wrong reasons. We want them to stand by us and listen us, rather we end up complaining which makes the situation even worse.
3. One promise that I make to myself today is that I will make a better version of myself in coming days and will learn to fight against negative experiences with great confidence without hurting my loved ones.

July 27, 2018:

1. That amazing moment when you begin to deliver love to your loved ones and you automatically start to receive it back multiple times.
2. Sometimes, it is all our fault but we fail to see that we had been blaming others when we can choose to behave in a right way.
3. Love is the best cure for any relationship.