A Personality With Divergent Lessons
Today was another day on which, we
were supposed to attend a Guest Lecture from a Managing Director Of Morgan
Stanley, Mr. Rajat Mathur Sir. I was pretty excited for this interaction to
begin. The Moment He started walking towards the stage, I was certain that I am
going to learn something new today. Something that Yesterday could not teach me
and tomorrow won’t. Hence, I was very attentive to listen to each word he use
and the way he project himself.
He began his speech with a trick to
involve the backbenchers in it and the way he did it, actually brought positive
results for him. He was very clear about what and when he wanted to say. In
addition, He told us the agenda of his speech from very beginning. Be precise,
is what I have been listening from various people, He is the one who actually showcased
its significance to me.
He continued with his speech and said
that He will talk about Top 5 Answers that will answer most of our questions by
the end of the session.
Few seconds later, he commenced with
the list of 5 major lessons that he wanted us to remember:
1. Life is not fair, you don’t have to care about
it, because it is long and you have more than 35 years career ahead of you.
(P.S. Stop Comparing Yourself with others.)
2. You always have a choice: You may think that
you didn’t have a choice but it is always you who preferred to implement the
convenient choice as per the given situations.
3. Worry about the things that are under your
locus of control. (P.S. He gave an example of the situation when we are stuck
in the middle of the traffic and all we do is to blow horns when it doesn’t
make a difference.)
4. People Like Nice People: You have the
opportunity to be nice in this world. (He gave an example of how people make
faces when they get calls from a particular set of people.)
5. Do It For Yourself: Do what is good for you.
Be responsible for yourself. Company will not are about your career.
Well, after he was finished with those
5 statements, I was certain that most of my queries have been resolved, yet I
did not lose hope to learn more. He continued with his speech shared couple of
more lessons which are mentioned separately in this post.
He later, welcomed the audience for
the Questions & Answers session and said that we can ask any question from
him and he will try to answer them by hook and crook. One of the questions was
asked by Asad Sultan, “What were the mistakes that you have done in your life?”
He answered,”1. I wasted Time In
Thinking More, 2. Did Not Make Much Friends In My College Life. 3. Did Not Do
Much Activities In My School Life.”
Another good question was asked Jatin,
“What are the top 3 qualities that you look for, in a candidate to select him
for an Interview?”
He began walking and said,” That’s a
very good question.” Then He continued with an answer and said that generally
people write hobbies just for the sake of writing. 1. Integrity: If they have
mentioned anything in their interest’s column, it must be true. 2. An Ability
to communicate. (For instance, Description about internship projects. 3. Well
roundedness: what the candidate is going to bring in the organization apart
from just doing his role.
There was only one difficult question
that he actually did not know but was still trying to answer it, No doubt, I am
no one to comment on it but still I learned a lesson that it can be easily
judged by people when we are making stories and when we actually know things. However,
It was still a very wonderful interaction and I got a surplus knowledge that I
could not receive without Him.
Until the end of the session, He
mentioned certain important things. For instance, everybody gets the same set
of knowledge in the class but what differentiate you, is how you use that
knowledge in your life.
I Hereby, Thank Him For Sharing With
Us, His Wonderful Wisdom Of Life.
May God Bless Him With Whatever He
Wants To Achieve.
May He Keep Learning More And Keep Sharing His Excellence.
Regards,
A Learner,
Rohit Sood
Things I Learned From His Session:
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You Must
Always Be Honest And Genuine With The Words You Use To Express Your Feelings.
(Lesson Credits: Mr. Loviraj Gupta Sir.)
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Use Of
Right Vocabulary Is Very Important. (Lesson Credits: Mr. Loviraj Gupta Sir.)
Thanks To Mr. Rajat Mathur Sir For The
Following Lessons:
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You Must
Develop An Interest Of All The Audience Before Beginning Your Speech.
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You Should
Be Honest With Your Audience.
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If It Is
Important, You Will Reach For It On Time Otherwise, It Shows That It’s Just A
Joke For You. (P.S. His Story Of Being Punctual.)
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Life Is
Not Fair, You Don’t Have To Care About It.
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You Always
Have A Choice.
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Worry
About The Things That Under Your Locus Of Control. (P.S. Yet I Feel, We Should
Not Care About Them Neither, As Things That We Can Control, We Should Rather
Focus On Solving Them.)
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People
Like Nice People.
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Do It For
Yourself.
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Invest In
Brand You.
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Make
Yourself Appealing, Not Just Looks But Your Character.
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Live.
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Focus On
Building VIP. (Values, Interests, Passion.)
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Build
Yourself As Personality Not Just A Student.
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People
Notice Everything You Do Or Say.
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You Must
Have The Basic Competence In Your Life.
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Increase
The Self Seek In You, To Learn More.
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Watching
And Experiencing Gives More Learning. (Self Learning Is Important.)
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If It Is
Important For You, You Will Do It.
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If You
Haven’t Tried It, You Don’t Have The Right To Comment And Say, “I Don’t Like
It.”
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Work Hard.
Play Harder.
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Never Say
You Don’t Have Time.
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Use
Google. Enhance Your Knowledge And Use It.
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Make
Friends And Do More Experiments.
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Have The
Right Attitude In Your Life.
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Its Not
Just Demand And Supply That Be Defined In Terms Of Function But Also The
Success. (P.S. I Will Share My Views About It In Detail Shortly.)
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An Easiest
Escape Plan Is The Excuse And That Is What Hold You Back. (For Instance: I
Could Not Do It Because, I Did Not Get Time.)
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